He whispered: "Show me how you do it"

I have been dating this fabulous guy for one year. He is passionate and dreadfully sexy, yet so attentive to me. I love his curly light brown hair, which turns into light fuzzy hair on his belly and around his penis. This, and his hazelnut eyes, turn me on instantly. I enjoy every moment of being with him. However, I find it hard to orgasm with men, even with a lot of foreplay. And I hardly dare masturbate my pussy to a close when he is penetrating me. I was raised, as all my generation, on a steady dose of porn, and the man is supposed to bring the woman to climax thanks to the power of his penis alone. The fact that a woman masturbate during penetration would somehow debase him as a male lover. He somehow realized that, for all my moaning and wriggling, I was not really orgasming when we had sex. And the other day, as the rhythm of his thrusting went faster and I felt him reaching his arousal plateau, he looked me in the eye then whispered into my ear: "Show me how you touch yourself." Then he added: "I need to know how you bring yourself to pleasure". I felt liberated. I kissed his mouth and starting touching my clit, then rubbing it harder and harder. We both came in an explosion, and we now do every time. Sex has become completely fulfilling, and I want to share everything with that man. This is bliss, both sexual and otherwise.